Are you single, thinking that it’s about time you found the love of your life? Or are you single and absolutely happy, but still wondering why relationships evade you?
There are reasons you are feeling the way you do, some of them are quite obvious, while others are subtle and hard to pinpoint. Whether you are content the way you are or in desperate need for a change.
Here are 4 honest reasons why you’re still single;
1. You Like It That Way
Sometimes it’s not about being lazy or scared to date, some women just like flying solo! It’s a different lifestyle and you might just be one of those girls who prefer to spend time on work, friends, hobbies, and travels rather than on building relationships.
In that case, why are you even surprised you don’t have a boyfriend if dating doesn’t interest you at all? Be adventurous, find time for a date or two, and see where it takes you. That is, if you want to, of course.
2. You’re Afraid to Get Hurt
And aren’t we all, really? Conquering that fear and revealing yourself to another person is what makes love and relationships so beautiful. You can’t become intimate with someone, both physically and psychologically, if you keep your walls up.
Open up to the world and people around you, be sincere about what you feel and what you want – and you’ll see how much happier you’ll become, no matter single or not.
3. You’re Looking for The One
This is totally understandable and is not a bad thing at all, but you have to be careful with setting your standards too high. After all, the more people we meet, the more experienced we get and the more understanding we have about ourselves, our needs, and the needs of other people.
You might meet someone that is not Prince Charming, but in the end he might turn out to be your greatest teacher. Don’t deny yourself the chance to learn from other people!
4. You’re Not Over Someone
This one is pretty easy, but only if you can be totally honest with yourself. Do you still have feelings for your ex or that cute co-worker who has been ignoring you for ages?
Things like this make you feel miserable and you don’t really enjoy any new connections that might or might not turn into relationships. You have to sort things out with past relationships before meeting other people!