I Seized My Daughter’s Phone and What I Found Broke My Heart Cause She’s Just 14 Year Old – Man Cries Out

This should be a lesson to all parents and all guardians. It’s very important to monitor, and guard your children, so that they won’t be led astray. Kindly learn from my story.

I married my wife when I was 27, and she was 22. She gave birth to another beautiful clone of her two years, and her life eventually stopped at the process.

I was pained, because I couldn’t afford to lose my wife. However, I chose not to marry anymore, and I transferred all the love I have had for my wife to my daughter.

I was a businessman, and I was quite rich, so spoiling my daughter with money is not a problem. I sent her to most prestigious primary schools, and she attended a very popular secondary school. Suddenly, business started booming a lot that I no longer have time for my daughter, and this goes on for like two years.

However, I noticed my once lively daughter was getting secretive, and her grades were getting worse, so I decided to pay more attention on her.

Fortunately, I found she was always with her phone, so I seized it, and ordered to go to her study room. I continued doing this till something prompted me to check her photo gallery.

At first, I said many beautiful pictures of her, and her friends, but as I started scrolling more, the pictures that was pooping out broke my heart.

I saw pictures of her smoking, and taking heavy alcoholic drink, then I started crying. I couldn’t help, but ask for my wife forgiveness, it was all my fault.

Please create time for your children, and stay safe.

What do you have to say about this? Kindly drop your comments.

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41 Comments

  1. Children need attention and guidance because they are naive .learn to discipline children no matter how rich you are

    • Children need to have boyfriend and girlfriend
      Children need to have boyfriend and girlfriend

      Children need to start keeping boyfriend girlfriend so they could learn how to fuck well and good

      • I don't know what to tell you this person. May God have mercy on you.
        I don't know what to tell you this person. May God have mercy on you.

        Take courage sir, all hope is not lost, just tske things easy with her she is still a kid. She was being misled by the influence of the peer group’s that she followed. Always be conscious of the friends that she keeps henceforth. May God protect you and her Amen.

      • When you give birth to your children, guide them just as you have said 😏😏😏😏. Rubbish…

  2. Absolutely heartbreaking !but all is not lost, counselling and being keen on parental guidance would help .

  3. Parents lets have time to our kids

    • Idris sukurat opeyemi
      Idris sukurat opeyemi

      Sorry for that u can still change her life for good by guarding her

      • This is really heart breaking. I think you need another woman in your life who will help you take care if your daughter since you are a busy man.
        However, call her attention and speak to her as a father to her daughter. DO NOT USE FORCE on her. Also do not forget to pray seriously for her. God will restore her.

  4. It’s indeed painful, I can see the pain bcz I’ve girls too. That’s not the end, commit that child to God almighty, God is the only one who can clean her and restore her life to normal, the way you want her to be, go to church with her, don’t show her your anger, nothing is impossible with God.
    I’ve a lot, but to start with, I think it’s enough for now. Pray for her and forget about you’re wife , bcz she’s no more and she left with you a good child.
    You’re 100% correct to share that story , our presence at home is very much important.
    God almighty bless you and deliver our little girl.

  5. Sorry for that.
    Parenting is not easy when you stay away from your children.
    Please try to be close and always caution on the wrong decision they make in life..From choosing freinds to wholesome entertainment.
    Because every thing has it’s consequences.
    Talk to her.

    • It is not your fault young man you have tried your best for training her, normal your have borned her and once her mother gave birth to her they is separation of life so take heart for that but that your daughter wants to spoil her carier , just keep on trying in other to drown her back but if you tried and she refused then leave her as she makes her bed let her lied on it.

      • If we don’t make love to our children ,who will? Our wealth is our children’s young one’s grow the life of imitating JUST ADVICE YOUR CHILD

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    • This is a heartbreaking matter.
      I know you are pained as a Father, thinking you have failed as a father but my advice to you is to create time for her.
      You’ve not failed just correct the mistake you’ve made.
      Know that You have not made a mistake until u repeat that mistake.Everything is not about luxury we also need time as children

  7. It has never been easy bringing up the kids… We need more time to attend to them, they are not little angels but little sinners

  8. Please, no matter how busy you may be, don’t forget to train the kids you have

  9. I pray πŸ™ to Almighty to bring her to the normal so aalso you should always pray πŸ™ for her and explain your self to GOD to help you 🀣😹 out, and talk to her gently all the time in GODFUL ways and always have time for her and you should know how to take care of her to avoid following male so please πŸ™ careful with your baby girl.so bye for now

    • Money is not everything, you were rich and you forgot money cannot play the role of a wife and mother too.Many of us are heart healers and broken heart repairs so come out life holds much.Take care of your family our brother.

  10. Please don’t scold her, just let her understand that all your efforts in life will be wasted if she lives her live carelessly, because whatever you have belongs to her and if she useless her live and end up badly, no one will take care of you in old age and she also will suffer. Show her more attention and counsel her the more
    Above all, lead her to Christ. God will protect her in Jesus Name.

  11. It’s well, may God have mercy. One have to keep on praying and be more attentive to children of nowadays. It’s not easy raising children these days expecially when they have become teenagers. I will advice you to remarry, I believe you and your new wife can together raise the girl very well. I pray you meet a responsible woman.

  12. Make ur family ur best friends, guidance is with Allah, but the opportunity start with us.

  13. Please always monitor ur kids so that they will not misbehave when they grow up. When ever you doing put God first before any other things. Thanks

  14. Sorry about that
    My advice is that we parent should aleast create time for their children because dey are the leader of tomorrow, pls knw matter that busy u are

  15. Monitoring or paying attention does not work. Let the kids know God from early age. As they grow no matter what life they may test they will one day come back to God. Come comes when they come back to their senses.

  16. Too bad indeed that’s parents need to be close to their teenage kids and give them moral counseling, but never trust much your child… finally pray for your children.

  17. That was carelessness and lack of concern. God first,family second before any other thing in life follows.children are precious gifts from God handle with carefulness. Give her too much comfort at that age was wrong. It is a lesson. No one is perfect even life is not perfect. Corrections should be taken.

  18. Who knows if you but the phone for her before the age of 14 because you are rich, and you don’t even care to check on her life style and her study’s because of business and moreover she might had start having sex who knows. Smoking and drinking at this age she had already gone worst please parents and guardians always check on your children especially children in secondary schools of this era.

  19. I thought it was nude self….😎😎

  20. Children needs more attention and decipline.

  21. May God forgive you because that’s very bad of you nd anything can happen out of anger please learn how to do self control in important

  22. I don't know what to tell you this person. May God have mercy on you.
    I don't know what to tell you this person. May God have mercy on you.

    Take courage sir, all hope is not lost, just take things easy with her she is still a kid. She was being misled by the influence of the peer group that she followed. Always be conscious of the friends that she keeps henceforth. May God protect you and her Amen.

  23. As you earlier stated, every body should put more attention to his/her children, bcoz they are active in respective of their parent knowledge, so parents be vigilant, secure, attentive, close, friendly, etc to the kids so that you may get some respond from them in a short period of time but when you are far away from them you get no respond in terms of getting answers to your questions, may Almighty Allah safe us and the kids too.

  24. Thank God you discovered it in time, some parents don’t discover this until is too late, I pray that God will help us as paren, cos honestly in trying to give them the best we end up forgetting our main responsibility.cos the child emotional , psychological and mental need should come first before physical needs.

  25. Thank you my brother. It’s a clear manifestation that,we should closely monitor our children. However, it’s never too late to talk to her. So that she can see reason to avoid the bad company she has already joined.

  26. Ibrahim Foday Conteh
    Ibrahim Foday Conteh

    Strike the balance between loving and caring for your children and teaching them discipline.
    These are the two prongs approach. Be hard, tough and soft as the scenarios unfold.
    And all of them should move alongside the trails right from the cradle.
    One of the first steps should be trying to identify the weak points, the friends as he/grows up and then the necessary steps, and these would include corporal punishment.

  27. Is not late than ever,one thing is counseling, prayer and going to chunge and u have to calm down put all ur hopes unto God only He will do great things for you ,am so sorry
    Is not late than ever,one thing is counseling, prayer and going to chunge and u have to calm down put all ur hopes unto God only He will do great things for you ,am so sorry

    Don’t give up now ur daughter depends on u npw All is not lost yet

  28. Pains alot but it wasn’t your fault πŸ˜₯

  29. Only God can turn the impossible to possible, please remember to pray to God so that He can help you in changing that girl’s present behavior because it is not easy really

  30. This is a heartbreaking matter.
    I know you are pained as a Father, thinking you have failed as a father but my advice to you is to create time for her.
    You’ve not failed just correct the mistake you’ve made.
    Know that You have not made a mistake until u repeat that mistake.Everything is not about luxury we also need time as children

  31. So pathetic sir, I know you’ve not done your part by always checking on her, but all hope is not lost, I will advice you take it to the Lord in prayer, is the God of a second chance, don’t give up on your her, always check on her, now you know her challenge, be her best friend, let her confide in you, there’s no situation God cannot turn around, also let your spiritual head/pastor knows about this, counsel her & as well pray for her. God will redirect her steps, do a new thing in life & new beginning. Shallom!!!

  32. God Will give her a new beginning

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