Natasha Keane, A mum, has revealed she still breastfeeds her daughter even though she is four-and-a-half years, saying she will only stop breast feeding her daughter when the little girl tells her to stop.
Keane is still breastfeeding her youngest daughter Grace, even though she is ready to start school.
The 38 year old mum-of-three who announced that she is a breastfeeding advocate, practises natural stage weaning – where a child decides for themselves when to stop breastfeeding.
She says that she feels it has helped both Ellie, six years old, and Grace, four-and-a-half years of age to build strong immune systems as only one of them has ever fallen sick since they were born.
According to her, when she was a first-time mum at 19, she had to stop breastfeeding after a few months due to medication but at that time, she believed nursing after a year was ‘creepy’.
Mum says she?ll keep breastfeeding her four-year-old daughter until the child decides to stop (photos)
‘I wanted to do it for longer, but I was only 19 back then and didn’t think I could question my doctor,’ she said.
‘I cried so hard for about a week afterwards. Stephen struggled to take his bottle and it was very stressful.’
After meeting her husband Adam, and falling pregnant with their first child together, she decided she wanted things to be different this time around and vowed to be more prepared.
Her determination made her join a local breastfeeding group.
‘I walked into my first meeting, and saw a woman tandem feeding her three-year-old and 18-month-old, with one at each breast,’ she recalled.
‘My jaw hit the floor. I genuinely had no idea it was possible to feed children past the age of one – let alone two at the same time.
‘Instead of judging, I simply asked questions.’
She started to research other groups, speak to other mums and read articles about extended breastfeeding. She also read that babies are passed valuable antibodies to help protect them against infection through their mother’s milk
‘There’s a saying in the community – ‘Don’t offer and don’t refuse.’ ‘Putting that into practice with my girls meant that, while I wasn’t sitting them down like clockwork, offering them my milk, I wasn’t saying no if they asked.’
She started breastfeeding Ellie with no deadline in mind and when Grace was born two years later, she would tandem feed with one on each breast. ‘I tandem fed for two years,’ she said.
‘I was a little apprehensive at first about the practicalities of it all, but you find your own groove, and it gets easier the more you do it.
‘As Ellie was a little older by then, I could explain to her to be patient and let Grace latch on and settle in first. ‘Every single night, they would fall asleep without fail, one on each breast, holding hands.’
While Ellie stopped wanting to breastfeed just before she turned five, Grace continues to suckle once in the morning and once in the evening. But Natasha still deals with negativity, which she blames on people’s miseducation.
‘People see breastfeeding as fair game – something everyone is allowed to have an opinion on and criticise,’ she said.
‘I never would, as it is every mum’s choice, but I know if I said something about bottle feeding, it would be unacceptable. ‘I have received some difficult comments over the years.
“When Grace was just eight months old, I had somebody say to me that I should be force-feeding her into weaning by that point. I just thought, “What would you say if you knew I’m also feeding her older sister?”
‘I don’t think people are deliberately trying to shame me, or be evil, though. It’s a lack of education – even within the medical profession.
‘We have lactation specialists, but not many of them, and most doctors and nurses aren’t armed to the teeth with the same level of information. That’s how you end up with mums like I used to be, who don’t realise you can feed past a year, or think it’s wrong to.’