One of the worst things that can happen to a man is realising that his wife has not only been cheating but is now pregnant for another man. Holding onto such a marriage can be tough.
My believe is that lots of men will walk away immediately they realise the wife has someone else’s child. It will be tougher to leave if you have children with her. And ths is the reason why this article is published just to help you know what to do in a serious situation like this. Below are three things to do when you realise there is such a mess in your marriage;
1. Pray For Your Marriage
There is power in prayer. Pray for your marriage. If you truly love your wife then reach out to God for answers. Some things are hard to imagine, but life must go on. Ask your religious leader and anyone you trust to pray with you.
2. Seek Professional Advice
A marriage counsellor could be better placed to save your marriage. The experts will analyse the marriage issue and advise you accordingly. Relax and seek help from a professional marriage counsellor. Remember to take into consideration legal issues as well.
3. Take Good Care Of Yourself
Your wife becoming pregnant with another man doesn’t mark the end of life. Take care of your mental, spiritual and psychological well-being. Do not make fast decisions until you have come to the bottom of the matter.
It is possible to rebuild trust and live happily, but you must be ready to live with the stigma.