Take a deep breath again as this time beckons reflection on the emotional and physical pain, or regrets we had over the last year. Past hurts, injustices, jealousies, broken relationships, along with the ebb and flow of life can knock the air out of anyone’s happiness balloon. We can recognize we made poor choices, or felt embarrassed by the one that mistreated you, and feel there is simply no justice. We need a positive view of the future as we look forward. Yesterday will keep you hung up. While you’re stuck, you never see any happiness or progress.
If we want anything new we need to let go of the past pain, or the person you believed you should be. I know it is really scary, we hate change due to the fear of the unknown, but if we don’t you will wake up one day feeling you missed out due to fear. Walking away from our comfort zone allows us to grab a hold of something new.
Remind that you have a lot of blessings and “stop focusing on how unlucky you are, and remind yourself about how blessed you are. there are some certain things you need to let go off in your life for you to be great and happy. Here are some of the things below;
1. Stop Being Perfect
We need to stop being perfect, and expecting life to be perfect as there is no such thing. People disappoint. Relationships fails, money, and dreams disappear. We have no control over what others are doing or thinking. We have no control over circumstances. “When we stop expecting life to be perfect, for people to be the best they can be, we are no longer holding ourselves down with things that are out of our control, we have grown and matured enough to appreciate both life and the people in our lives for what and who they are.”
2. Let Go Of Hatred
Letting go is also forgiving your boss, co-worker, or anything that didn’t work out in your life. Start with you. Don’t allow it to poison your mind, and health.
3. Let Go Of Old Thoughts and Failed Plans
If it is not working, change it up. Start with you. Write it down of things you need to discard in life. Bad influences, disorganization, or bad habits, can be taken care of one step at a time.
4. Let Go of the Unknown
Moving forward into a new job or gig can be tricky, but you are in control of you. Passivity breeds depression, and stress.
5. Stop Limited Thinking With Negative Self-talk
Stay focused on the positive, or you will make the “I can’t achieve this” into a reality.
6. Let Go Of Being Vision-less
Create a vision braids and keep new goals ahead of you. Dream up the word and post so you can remain focused.
7. Let Go Of Being Avoidance
If you’re avoiding the truth, you’re probably avoiding other things as well. Things rarely get better all on their own. Create a plan and face the things you need to face. You’ll ask yourself why you didn’t do it sooner.