So, you told this woman you like her, but she said back off because you don’t have the looks of someone who can be trusted. Or maybe your girl said she loves you, but would check where you are and whom you are with every hour—and she doesn’t believe the details you tell her, so she spies on you!
It is normal for a woman who has been cheated on in her past relationships to have difficulty trusting men again. Or if you are currently in a relationship and your girlfriend has caught you lying several times, you cannot blame her for suspecting you to be doing something behind her back. And it won’t be easy gaining her 100% trust again.
If you want to gain a woman’s trust, here are 14 things that you can do. They are simple, but not so easy. However, if they successfully work, you will have a better chance at winning a woman’s heart or securing your relationship. Here they are:
1. Be Real In Front Of Her
Being true to yourself before the woman you like will make it easier for her to trust you, because she learns what you are and what you are not. Pretending to be someone else may impress her at the beginning, but sooner or later she will find out your true colors and that would make her feel deceived.
2. Be Patient
Do not be impatient when trying to get a woman’s trust, especially if it was your fault why you lost it. It takes time to build trust. Therefore, just be consistent and honest with her all the time. Don’t pressure her to trust you because it would be harder for her.
3. Make Tour Intentions Clear to Her
If you want to date a girl, you have to make your intentions clear. Is it because you like her and you want to know her better? Or are you just bored and you only want to have fun? This will help her set boundaries for your relationship and avoid disappointments too.
4. Introduce Her to Your Family and Friends
If you are serious with a woman, and you want her to feel secure, then introduce her to your family and friends. This way, she would feel important to you and that you are not hiding anything or anyone from her.
5. Be Consistent With How You Treat Her
Men are good at making girls feel special during the dating stage, but once they go steady or after a year of being together, their treatment towards them turn sour. When a girl notices that her boyfriend has changed towards her, she can’t help think he has found someone else. Therefore, make sure that you remain sweet and affectionate to your girl all throughout your relationship.
6. Don’t Break Promises
Don’t make a promise that you cannot keep. Once you have broken a promise, the woman you promised to will be disappointed and think you are a liar. It will be hard for her to trust you again, so think before you vow to do something.
7. Be Open to Her
Openness is an essential factor in a healthy relationship, because you can honestly tell each other how you feel. It is not good if you cannot trust each other with your thoughts. If you want your girlfriend to be honest with you, make the first move by opening up your feelings and secrets to her.
8. Show That You Trust Her
Trust begets trust. You cannot demand trust from a woman, if you don’t trust her yourself. That is why, make her feel that you completely trust her. Don’t check her phone every time you see her, or get jealous with her guy friends easily.
9. Don’t Be Too Friendly With Other Girls
It’s okay to be friends with girls, but do not overdo it by being too sweet or flirty with them. You don’t want to give your girlfriend any reason to be jealous with them. Sometimes, a woman can go to the extreme of not allowing her boyfriend see his girl friends anymore, because she is afraid of what he does with them when she’s not around.