Relationship is a connection between two people driven by love and / or sexual attraction. Relationship does not just end on its own, people are the ones that end and kill there relationship by themselves. For you to be able to properly take care of your relationship, you need to to avoid some things in your relationship. Below are some of the things you must avoid in your relationship;
You lie about everything even when you are caught in the act. Some people can’t deal with lies. Lying will make it hard for your partner to trust you. A relationship where there’s no trust is as good as nothing. Be truthful.
Physical abuse(beating, slap, hitting, flogging etc), emotional abuse(manipulation, cursing, neglect etc), sexual abuse(rape, harassment etc. ) etc., has the capability to end any relationship. Avoid every form of abuse!
What you neglect will die. If you neglect your relationship, it will die naturally. If you don’t have time for your relationship and partner, you’re always too busy. Please try give your relationship attention. Create time for it!
4. Nagging And Complaining
Some people can complain a lot. Even when their partners tell them sorry, they will ask you why are you telling them sorry. Little things they should overlook, they must complain and nag. It’s not everything you should complain about. Some people can’t deal with complaining everytime. Try to understand things at times!
This is when you are too busy or careless to notice some details about your partner. Your words and actions are hurting the person but you’re too careless to notice. Your partner is having some difficulty or emotional swings but you don’t care. Take time to observe your partner. Ask questions when you notice some changes.
This is a feeling of anger or displeasure you have against your partner probably because you were wronged or betrayed by him or her.
Bottling up anger is not healthy for relationship. It will eventually erode your love for your partner. If your partner offends you, tell the person as quickly as possible instead of bottling up anger.
This is a feeling that you are better than everyone else even the person you’re in a relationship with. When you are pride, you will be feeling entitled, that it’s your partner duty to make the relationship to work after all you’re doing the person a favor. The truth is, you are not doing anybody any favor by being in relationship. Be humble!
You’re in a relationship but still sleeping around with other people without your partner’s knowledge. You’re dating 5 people concurrently. Once your partner discovered that you’re cheating on him, that relationship can end immediately. Be faithful!
9. Over familiarity
Being too familiar is not healthy for relationship. Respect and value tends to reduce after all there’s nothing more to know about the person. You’ve known and seen everything. Avoid over familiarity otherwise you will take each other for granted.
This is claiming to be what you are not. Don’t claim to have to money when you don’t. Don’t claim to be a wife material or a virgin when you are not. Let your partner know and see you for what you are so that they will be making an informed decision whether or not to marry you. But if you deceive your partner into marriage, and later finds out the kind of person you are, it will be difficult for him or her to trust you again. Be real!