Mother Of Quadruplets Was Told By Doctors to Choose Which Of Her 4 Children Should Live and Which Should Die, She Ignored Advice and Kept Them All

A mother who recently gave birth to a set of quadruplets has revealed how she was asked during the difficult pregnancy to choose which two of her four babies she wanted to save.

Kendall MacDonald, 27, from Timaru in New Zealand, and her husband Josh are Fpcosproud parents to six-month-old quads and a three-year-old son named Brooklyn.

It is the first set of quads born in New Zealand in 20 years.

Mrs MacDonald still remembers the moment she was told by doctors of the very real chance her babies may not survive.

‘I was 12 weeks pregnant and it was suggested for the sake of my health and my babies’ health that I reduce my pregnancy by one set of twins,’ she told FEMAIL.

Mrs MacDonald’s much-hoped for pregnancy with the quads came after three years of trying to conceive.

The couple had desperately wanted a sibling for their boy and had started trying two months after Brooklyn was born.

‘I suffered from polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) and endometriosis which made it difficult for me to conceive as I wasn’t ovulating regularly. Even getting pregnant with Brooklyn came as a big surprise.’

PCOS is a hormonal condition that causes problems with menstrual cycles and fertility.

As well as having medical conditions which made falling pregnant hard, Mrs MacDonald also suffered from toxic shock syndrome following the birth of her first child when part of the placenta was left in her body.

This left her with scarring on her uterus, which doctors told her would make it difficult for her to fall pregnant as well as carry a baby to term.

Over the period the couple were trying to conceive, there would also be a miscarriage.

Eventually, Mrs MacDonald would seek help to get pregnant using a drug known as Clomifene.

‘Clomifene helps the body to ovulate and that was my problem. It seemed obvious that we would try that first,’ she explained.

Mrs MacDonald’s first round of treatment revealed she hadn’t ovulated. However, after the dose was increased in her second month, she fell pregnant.

‘It usually doesn’t happen that fast for people but obviously, that upped dosage created a lot of eggs,’ she said.

While an early scan would confirm the heartbeat of just one child, the day of her nine-week scan would reveal the presence of another. Then a third scan that same day would reveal the heartbeats of two more.

‘We’d gone from one baby, two two, then three then four. It was a huge shock,’ she said.

‘It was very surreal and we couldn’t understand how these babies just kept multiplying.

‘And we were almost in disbelief because multiples of anything don’t run in either of our families. I never expected it.’

What Is a Multifetal Reduction?

* A surgery called multifetal reduction lowers the number of fetuses and improves chances for a healthy pregnancy.

* It is also called fetal reduction or selective pregnancy reduction.

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Although this was a celebratory moment for the young couple, at 12 weeks the expectant mum was told she may need to make a heartbreaking choice.

‘It was suggested for the sake of my health and my babies health that I reduce my pregnancy by one set of twins,’ she said.

The family were given two weeks to make their decision and during this time they decided to seek out the opinion of two other specialists.

One agreed with her obstetrician’s advice, however, another specialist said she wasn’t so sure: ‘This obstetrician said “if you are having no issues and you want to go ahead, then why don’t you?”‘

That day the couple went home with the advice if Mrs MacDonald could make it to 28 weeks without going into labour, the quads would be in with a fighting chance.

‘I was told that if I went into labour before 28 weeks, the babies wouldn’t survive. So the first goal was to get to 25 weeks, with an ultimate goal of 28 weeks,’ she said.

This would mean the couple would need to spend the next three months hoping their babies continued to grow and that nothing went wrong.

‘We were told not to buy any baby items or get ahead of ourselves because there were just so many risks,’ she added.

When Mrs MacDonald reached 25 weeks, it was suggested she and her husband move into Ronald McDonald house to be closer to the hospital.

How much did each of the MacDonald quads weigh when born?

* Quinn – 1.1kg

* Indie – 1.1kg

* Hudson – 1.2kg

* Molly – 1.3kg

At 28 weeks, she’d went into labour, which went for three days although oddly came with no pain.

‘I was in denial I was even going into labour at first. I remember seeing my stomach tense and contract and then instead of a big bump, I saw the outline of four babies.

‘After a few seconds, my stomach returned to normal. A minute later the same thing happened again.’

Once doctors confirmed she was in labour, Mrs MacDonald was taken straight to theatre where she had a Cesarean section to deliver her babies.

With help of surgeons she first delivered Quinn and Indie. Next was her son, Hudson. Then her daughter Molly followed.

Mrs MacDonald said although her babies were tiny, they were also much bigger than doctors had expected.

‘Single babies born at that gestation are generally 900 grams but our smallest was 1100. And they were very tall.’

All this time, I’d been so terrified of losing my precious babies I hadn’t allowed myself to get excited

Because they were born so early, they’d need to spend time in NICU connected to breathing tubes because they weren’t able to breathe on their own

It would be seven weeks before they’d be able to be hugged, and another three before they’d be given the all clear to go home.

Baby Molly would need to spend a further two weeks in the hospital because she wasn’t feeding well. Her twin Hudson would stay with her to keep her company.

At 12 weeks, with all her children at finally at home, Mrs MacDonald said she finally ‘felt like a mum of five’.

‘All this time, I’d been so terrified of losing my precious babies I hadn’t allowed myself to get excited.’

Making the event even more memorable was a photoshoot arranged by celebrated baby photographer Cassandra English.

‘The MacDonald babies may be the only set of quads I’ll ever get to meet in my career, so it really was an incredible experience,’ said Ms English previously.

To bring her stunning vision to life, the photographer explained she needed four babies, four assistants, three baby shushers, 27 bunches of fresh flowers, a handmade wreath and a wooden bed made by her dad.

‘I’d been dreaming up this session since I found out about Kendall carrying these four tiny miracles,’ Ms English said.

What does a day in the life of the MacDonald household look like?

* The babies are fed a minimum 24 bottles a day, this doesn’t include multiple top up feeds.

* They are formula-fed which and go through a 900g can of formula every day and a half.

* Over the course of a day, the babies will use at least 30 nappies

* Their strict routine sees them wake up at 7am. They take naps from from 9-10am, 12-2pm and 4-5pm.

* They are put to bed for the night by 7pm.

The quads have just reached their six-month milestone and Mrs MacDonald reports her family are all happy and healthy.

Help comes in the form of free formula and free nappies, thanks to the New Zealand Government but life is still very much a juggling act.

‘It’s not easy but it’s easier than we expected it to be.

‘I can’t believe we are on the other side of it and four healthy babies and they are all miracles.’


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