My Husband Told Me He Was a Car Dealer Only For Me to Discover After Our Wedding That He Lied to Me

I have been in tears since the first week of my wedding, and totally confused about what to do.

I had a very strict upbringing which prevented me from getting too close to my husband before we got married. I met my husband in my hairdressing salon seven months ago. He was driving pass and saw me outside, and parked his car and came outside. He talked to me briefly and introduced himself. He was a very friendly and jovial guy, and I liked him immediately.

We became friends, and he visited often. He was always coming to my shop every day with different cars. I asked him what he was doing that he could afford so much cars, and he laughed and told me that he was a car dealer.

A car dealer? I was impressed. And it was clear he was doing so well in his business, considering the kind of cars he was always bringing to see me everyday. So when he asked me out, I didn’t hesitate to say yes to him. TAP HERE TO SEE FULL POST AND CONTINUE READING

I was proud of him. I was always quick to show him off to my friends at my salon.
“Meet my guy, he’s a car dealer.” Those words gave me a deep sense of pride.

I never visited him for once, because I come from a very strict home, and visiting a man you’re not yet married to was against my doctrines.

Just four months into our dating, he proposed to me, and I accepted. That was the point I should have suspected that something was wrong, because immediately he proposed to me he began to complain about his business. He said business was bad, and he could barely afford the wedding.

My business was doing well, and I had some savings. And more so, I wasn’t getting any younger, so I wanted to settle down. Apart from that, business is about high and low moments, so I was hopeful that things would get better for him again soon. And what would I be doing in his life if I could not support him in his low moments?

So I handed my savings to him to assist him with the wedding arrangements. He said that when he sold his cars he was going to return the money back to me, although I was not bothered about him repaying the money.

Two months after the proposal, we had a very beautiful wedding. I was the happiest woman in the world that day, getting married to the most loving man in the world in the presence of my family and friends.

My joys knew no bounds. I couldn’t wait to go home with him and start a family with him.
But you can imagine how my joy was shortlived when I went home with him and discovered that the man I got married to was different from the man he told me he was.
He is not a car dealer, but works in a car-wash.

He doesn’t have a single car, neither is he dealing with cars. He works in a car-washing place for someone. So anytime a customer brought a car for him to wash, after washing the car, he would drive the car around a bit, and that was how he saw me. That explains why he was always coming to my shop every day with different cars.

My husband deceived me into marrying him. I feel ashamed of myself. I have been in tears ever since. I don’t know why he did this to me. How can I tell my family and friends that he is a car-washer, and not a car-dealer as I earlier told them? My younger sister called me a few days ago and said she wanted to come and visit us, but I told her not to come. I lied to her that I wanted to travel, because I didn’t want her to come and find out the truth and take the news home. But how long will I continue to live like this?

Right now I am confused, and I don’t know what to do. And I desperately in need of advice on what to do.

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29 Comments

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  2. You ladies deserve it not only you because you like lies more than truth. Nothing you can do than to accept your destination

    • She is an idiot she never even loved him in any ways she was Carried by is fleshy life stile, lady you have not seen anything marriage is for better for worse support him , pray for him things will be better for him after all is future is still bright

  3. Is it money you love or to build your family

  4. There is nothing you can do just continue with your marriage.Na husband you marry not be car.

  5. You are like worldly things ,you were carried aways by beautiful cars and forgot to find out what he is really into.you have to accept your fate.marriage is for better for worst

  6. You dont him to his family and you married him because he told you that he is a car dealer. My sister, na like dat u go dey wit am o.

  7. He is a car dealer in his own field he betrayed himself but you can help him still. Turn it to positive by prayer and hard work , his claim can turn to reality and you will see your dream man. God help you both

  8. If you naturally love him… Stay with him and discuss with him how you guys are going to move forward…. I believe there is a solution to every problem

  9. Sgt Victor Unwanu
    Sgt Victor Unwanu

    My dear so sorry about that, just bear with him you no our God is a miracle wonder God 🙏 I have the belief one day God will here your cry and he will turn things around for your good 🙏

  10. Learn to put yesterday behind,yes he lied to you but you are a step advanced in life with your status.Que sera sera.Focus on your emotional and psychological balance and keep your business booming. If you opt to leave the marriage it might be the end of you having a chance to have a man as your husband.A lot of marriageable aged women out there,still praying for a suitor.If he is in love with you and strive to care for always.Stay with him and I can assure you that you will only laugh off your present pains.

  11. Just continue to for God will over your life and the Lord will guide you in Jesus name

  12. You just have to accept it as a destiny and faith, so what you need to do now is be praying for him at wholeheartedly, for almighty god to put to your husband elbow entirely…… please take heart dear ok !!!……

  13. It is a big lesson to our young women who usually lure after beautiful things. She has to be truthful to herself by opening to her parents and friends on time before it gets out of help and control… She’s learnt a good lesson of life she lacks. Anyways, if the guy is educated or somehow skilful in one area or the other, I believe they have good future together…. At this juncture, they need to be more naked to themselves and plan good future together… Divorce is not an option and separation is not a solution but togetherness and love. Good luck!

  14. Prince Daniel Enogela
    Prince Daniel Enogela

    Stay with him and guys both should pray together,brighter glory soonest over u guys!!

  15. Stay with him and guys both should pray brighter glory soonest over u guys!!

  16. Okwuchukwu Onwudi
    Okwuchukwu Onwudi

    Thank God tgat he is not a thief. If u want to stay u can stay and back it up with prayers. He needs deliverance ok. Pray for spirit of pride to leave him and u guys can make a good family.

  17. Funmilayo oluyemi Oyebode
    Funmilayo oluyemi Oyebode

    You have your fault for being carried away with material things. But he shouldn’t have lie,any relationship build on lies is at the mercy of God.I pray that God will help you to love him the way he is, wishing you best of luck.

  18. You should have try a bit and pay him a visit.

    • The Marriage Can Be Annulled On The Basis Of Falsehood
      The Marriage Can Be Annulled On The Basis Of Falsehood

      The Marriage Can Actually Be Annulled On The Basis Of Falsehood Please,No Be Only For Better For Worst

  19. Why should he lie to her. It’s deception. The guy is not even proud of what he does. That marriage is null and void.

  20. As you’ve said earlier he is a loving guy. I think what is important in marriage is happiness and not properties. Just tell your family things changed for him and life has not been easy for you both. So he has to go for car wash

  21. Serves you girl’s right, you made men to begin to lie to you, in as much as the young man has his own shear of guilt but the pleasure of material and worldly thing’s has completely taken over the life of girl’s of this day’s, especially our nigerian girl’s, you got carried away because the young man told you he’s a car dealer,you never loved him , you never gave it a thought atleast to visit him one day, what if he is a spirit or maybe a squatter,I guess you refuse to visit because you are scared he might he might demand of sex from you, this another area you women stupidly make another nonsense and careless mistake, you don’t want to test the young man strength on bed atleast to be sure he can satisfy you on bed, ofcourse every woman needs a man who can satisfy her on bed to avoid thinking about ur ex or sneaking out of the house just to go get sexual satisfaction from ur ex or another strange man, I don’t have any pity on you at all, it’s your cross and so carry it, mind you separation or divorce is not a solution, first of all change that mentality and mindset you are seeing the man with and begin to love him sincerely and deep down ur heart, most importantly pray without season because what God can not do does not exist, I’m sure at the end of the tunnel comes joy, happiness and celebration.

  22. My dear marriage is not all about material things or what you have, but it’s about how much do both of you love each other and also about what does the future holds for you both.if both of you truely love each other l think you have solve the major problem, the next thing is to think of how to start planning your home with him, lastly please don’t ever build a relationship or home on the bases of what would people say, because as far as l’m concerned they are not God who owns our future.beside we can not all start from the same place in our lives ok? I pray for God’s blessings and peace in your home.

  23. The truth is that you were carried away with material things you see rather than what you need to know about him which is basic but why would the guy lied over what he do to deceive the girl to the point of marriage. You have to forgive him, pray and support him. God will turn things around.

  24. A liar is a liar and will continually be a liar.
    Get ready to endure every lies in that marriage till the end of time.
    Remember that HE can never change.
    To me, if you cannot endure to live a falsehood life because of your faith, you better leave now because if you are a true christian, that falsely livelihood will always affect your spiritual life anday lead you to hell.

  25. GOD bless u daddy Kay.,with prayers they can turn things around because nobody is seeing what the guy is seeing they only required a bit of faith to accomplish the man dreams
    GOD bless u daddy Kay.,with prayers they can turn things around because nobody is seeing what the guy is seeing they only required a bit of faith to accomplish the man dreams

    Young woman don’t bother urself but continue to pray for your husband if u really love him and see the power of Almighty GOD in action because u are not seeing what the man spirit is telling him but if u can believe and trust the power of God but this same time next year u will have a big testimony to shares.Remain bless in the atmosphere of faith.Spiritual is bigger than the phisical

  26. Prince Goddy Osehi
    Prince Goddy Osehi

    Young woman don’t bother urself but continue to pray for your husband if u really love him and see the power of Almighty GOD in action because u are not seeing what the man spirit is telling him but if u can believe and trust the power of God but this same time next year u will have a big testimony to shares.Remain bless in the atmosphere of faith.Spiritual is bigge

  27. Follow your heart dear

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