My Husband Told Me He Was Going For a Burial, Only For Me to Discover That He Went to Do Wedding With Another Lady

I have been wondering what I did wrong. I have tried in every way I can to be a good wife and mother. I thought I had gotten a firm grip on my family, only for me to wake up one day and discover that I was wrong.

I have been married for 11 years. My husband used to work in a construction company, while I sell food at the roadside to support the family. He has been without a good job for five years, ever since he was retrenched from his place of work. So he did all sorts of menial jobs to support the family. TAP HERE TO CONTINUE READING

Though he has always complained that he is not happy with the fact that I no more taking care of myself and reserve no time to cater for my looks. But I always told him that the stress I go through every day weighs me down. The stress of cooking food everyday to sell is not something that one can describe. So I always expect him to understand things with me.

Six months ago we were overly excited when my husband got a call from one steel company. His friend recommended him there. And he was employed as their storekeeper.
His salary was impressive, and there was an improvement in the standard of living.

He began to complain excessively about me. He said I was too gaudy. That his level in life has improved so he wants a woman that he can proudly introduce to his friends. I told him to give me some time to adjust, because our years of privation had dealt a big blow to my sense of fashion and style. But he said I was flagrantly refusing to do what pleases him.

But three weeks ago, my husband told me he was traveling for his friend’s burial in the Eastern part of the country. So I believed him. Only for someone to call me the following evening to ask me what was going on, that my husband was getting married that evening. It sounded so ridiculous to me, so I put a call across to my husband. He answered and told me he was going to call me back later. He never called back that day or even the following day, and he never returned back to the house.

After three days I decided to call him back, only for him to tell me that he will see me soon and that I should be ready to accept whatever decision he has taken.

I really don’t understand what is going on. So he lied to me that he was going for a friend’s funeral only for him to go and get married to another woman without my knowledge?

I am really in a bad state of mind now. I really need advice on what to do. Please don’t hesitate to advise me, please.

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5 Comments

  1. So horrible of him. It’s not the way to reward a woman who faithfully stayed by his side while he had nothing! Men can be so stupid at times. But you have to take heart o! What can you do. God will provide for you. He will regret it but does that bring him back? Sue him for child care but face your life squarely.

  2. He just announced his own funeral that’s all I know and don’t worry because I know God will surely take care of you and don’t even think about him because he will surely get what he deserves

  3. Well,Life bring Unpleasant Surprised,so don’t take this issue as end of your life,because Gold sold to those who know the value,maybe someone at there know your value and will respect who you really are to himself. Mark you today,don’t stress yourself with overthinking that him married another woman,that is to show you that him never love you at first,move on with your life,more doors are open at there. God have a way of doing things,so don’t kill yourself over someone who doesn’t know your value and respect as a woman. Think of how to move out and face the reality of Life and I do bet you that someone better than him will cross your part. Whatever will human do on Earth,there are Nemesis waiting for us,one day him will come begging for forgiveness and it’ll be too late at then.
    Stop worry about the thing that you’ve lost,the people’s that you’re lost,things and people’s who are melt to be with you are with you,and sometime,somebody absent make you a better person, cheerses their absent,life will turmoil,there will be hardship but that could only make you stronger,when you accept yourself the way you are,the world’s will recognize you.
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  4. Don’t bother look until the lord almighty, God will bless you very soon as for that your former husband very soon you will go for his burial

  5. Why are you devastated??
    “The can been used to flog the first wife is being kept for the second wife as well”.
    Don’t worry keep on praying to God to locate you with peace and joy because he is the author and finisher of our faith.
    When he starts having some problems, he will come back begging but he would have been too late by then you would have moved on.

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