My Pastor Raped, Impregnated and Promised to Marry Me But He Wants Me to Abort the Pregnancy Now

A young beautiful lady known as Joy as seek advice from people on what she should do about what her pastor did to her. According to her, her pastor raped and Impregnated her and now want her to abort the pregnancy.

Read her story below;

I am Joy, 21 years old. A member of his church and I belong to the choir group. One day I went for service, at the end of the service our pastor started praying for each one of us. But after praying for me, he told me to wait behind that he saw something bad while he was praying for me. TAP HERE TO CONTINUE READING

After the church closed at about 6:30, I went to his office to see him. He told me that while he was praying for me he saw me crying in the spiritual realm. He asked me if I had any problem, I said no.

He then asked me to kneel down for him to pray for me. He prayed for me for a while but I was still conscious of my self. He then open his drawer and brought out anointing oil. He told me to open my mouth, he then poured it into my mouth and asked me to drink it, he did it about three times and asked to drink it. After drinking the oil, he continued praying for me, as he was praying I became dizzy, I thought it was the anointing, I later became unconscious.

I woke up at about an hour later, when I woke up, I could feel it in my body that the pastor had slept with me when I was unconscious. I asked him what happened? He told me I was under the anointing and feel unconscious. Then I told him he had slept with me, but he denied, when I confronted him and told him I was going to tell my parents and the police, he then knelt down and started begging me.

He told me that he loved me but did not know how to tell me, he started begging me that he was going to take care of me, that I should not tell anybody. That I should be his girlfriend, he was almost crying.

I asked him why did he not tell me at first. I asked him if he had drugs in the anointing oil he gave me, but he denied. I told him I was not safe, because he did not even use protection. He told me I should not worry, I wouldn’t get pregnant, even if I did he was going to marry me.

It is three months now, since then I have not seen my period, I believe I am pregnant. I don’t know what to do. When I called him to tell him I was pregnant, he immediately cut the call.

When I went to his office to see him, he said he was going to take me to somewhere; I asked him where was that, but he refused to tell me. I believed he wanted to go and abort my pregnancy.

Right now I am confused, he is not even talking about marriage. If I told my parents they will kill me. Please I need advice.

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70 Comments

  1. You enjoyed it that was why you didn’t tell anybody even your parents nor closest friend. Go and born the Innocent child

    • Do not make the mistake of following the Pastor to a secret place. He will kill you in order to cover up his shame!
      Do not make the mistake of following the Pastor to a secret place. He will kill you in order to cover up his shame!

      Don’t make the mistake of following the Pastor to a secret place. He will kill you to cover his shame.

      Abubakar Sadiq Suleman

      • Well you don’t need another pastor to tell you that this particular pastor is a slave master. What you will do is to involve police, because if you tell your parent maybe they will be out of there mind and definitely hurts you, but if you submit the matter to police, they will invite the so called fake pastor and your parents and they will advise your parents what to do ànd what they will not do. Sorry it is a tragedy, I will also blame you if you choose to abort the child. You never know what tomorrow have for you and the child. Going into marriage with the slave master called pastor is dangerous, not advisable, if you can do a proper check on the pastor, you will understand that any man that can abuse and betrayed God is dangerous. So it is up to you.

      • That is Sexual Gender based vionce and I condemned it strongly,so legal procedures can be still be taken by recording his voice as you have conversations so that justice be found if you keep it secret the trend will continue .every violence happening today the perpetrators are known to us but we just cover them up that they may kill us shout it and get help don’t worry who will come to help you you can inbox me I connect you with organization lawyer who is dealing with such cases , hope she will help you get justice. DON’T BE QUITE AND EVERYONE TO COME OUT AND SAVE SOME.

        • Thank you Steve for the advice to joy. Act very Soo n. She needs counseling apart from conceiving her status also be checked. He never used any condom
          Thank you Steve for the advice to joy. Act very Soo n. She needs counseling apart from conceiving her status also be checked. He never used any condom

          Praying that his health is ok. Never go to any body’s office alone. Even relatives are tempted so who is pastor. I pray you’re save

          • Please my sister Joy, never make a mistake to follow him anywhere or make attempt to get rid of the child. What I will advise you on is to let the elders of the church know about it and also fall on people that u think ur parents listen to so that they can handle this matter.
            It will be nice when u informed the police but he will go to jail and the burden will be on u.
            Keep the pregnancy ok. God have plans for the innocent child ok.
            But next time be careful of all this pastors. Anytime they want to see you in secret, make sure you involve ur parents or close one ok.

      • In support please don’t go any where with the pastor or else…go tell your parents about it and your closest friend please and gear what dey have to say but on no account must u go visiting him alone

  2. smithcamilous@gmail.com
    smithcamilous@gmail.com

    The advice is that I know this girl she is a streets hore , so no story no advice

  3. Adebayo Wellington
    Adebayo Wellington

    You must be very foolish not to have even told your parents immediately it happened. You allowed him to deceive you and now you are looking for a remedy. The only remedy you have is to inform your parents, even if you feel they will kill.

  4. You are a pagan inside a pagan church. Look at the way you dress seductively, with which you enticed the so called unregenerated pastor. If you abort the child your hands will be stained with blood. Report to your parents, so they can tell the pastor to bear his cross.

  5. Young Lady, you made the first mistake of not notifying your parents immediately he raped you, but don’t make the second & most tragic mistake of not informing them now before this Pastor ruins your life. The process of abortion may result to loss of life. Your parents can only blame you for not informing them the moment he raped you, but they can’t blame you for responding to your Pastor’s invitation for prayers.

  6. This is just an imaginary story.stop kubeba watu kifoolosh. Carry ur own close.

  7. The young lady my advice is mistake is not the mistake, but the repeating mistake is the mistake.problem is not a problem but method how to solve a problem is the problem.

  8. Hmmm. May God help us. That pastor has drugs inside the anointing oil, report this to your parent and police to save other people as you can’t tell now how many girls he would have drugged and raped just like you. Save others please.

    • It is an issue of bad or good pastor, most people foolishly believe in anointment even when they haven’t seen any oil working! In search of Godly miracles everything has happened to these innocent girls. My advice to joy is to carry that pregnancy to end. A wrong can’t correct another

  9. Young lady, it’s better for you to tell your parent about the pregnancy, because keeping it without telling them is dangerous. God will judge the Pastor for you by his grace Amen.

    • If I were you, I won’t waste more time before telling my parents.
      You are already pregnant & the useless man does not want to take up his responsibility.
      You are just playing with your life.
      Tell them immediately & your problem will have a solution.
      You can’t fight this battle alone.

  10. If I were you, I won’t waste more time before telling my parents.
    You are already pregnant & the useless man does not want to take up his responsibility.
    You are just playing with your life.
    Tell them immediately & your problem will have a solution.
    You can’t fight this battle alone.

  11. Why should they killed you because of the occurrence, still open up for them before too late

  12. See how u look like a street girl,tell me why ur pastor will not have his eyes on u,if I may ask, are you the only beautiful girl in that church? madam u are the cause of ur problem, how can you have an affair with ur pastor or let me say u were rapped and u never told ur parents about it,u are a big FOOL

  13. May God help us. That pastor is fake & evil, he druged the anointing oil, stop delaying to report this drugged & raped case to your parent and police to save other people as you can’t tell now how many girls this fake & evil pastor would have drugged and raped just like you. Save others please.

  14. Young lady, that pastor will do nothing, his game plan is over, but you can still share it with parents and church members

  15. This is the best advice she can get. I hope she's listening
    This is the best advice she can get. I hope she's listening

    She’s apparently a seducer. But her story is credible and unfortunate. She met an evil man in the garb of a pastor. She’s done well to expose him (partially) here. Let her tell her parents what she just told us now. They’d understand that it was rape but will blame her for delaying till the evidence is destroyed. But will be happy with her for not agreeing to abort the baby and for letting people know that this kind of danger exists with pastors

  16. This is common in our churches today. Pls be careful of where to go with him, he can even kill you to avoid being exposed. Tell ur parents, report him to the Police even the church board, and never consider getting married to him because he is highly irresponsible. Pls do well to expose him to safe urself, ur family, the body of Christ, other ladies and the world at large. He is evil.

  17. Young lady,to b honest with you,there is no advice dat people will give you Dan d one u give to urself,,,, period
    There is still time,u better do d needful now, before it will be totally late.
    Thanks and God bless you and your unborn baby.

  18. The only way out of this problem is to bring your parents into the picture and the useless posture will bear his cross by fire by force. Whether he likes it or not ok

  19. It is unfortunate that it happened, involve ur parents & d Police for security Purposes because he may decide to kill u to safe his name since he hasn’t fear of God.

  20. I no blem the pastor look as u dress

  21. You still need to let your parents know about it, even if you have made the mistake already by not telling your parents immediately after you new he slept with you. My advice rite now is go and let your parents know about it so that they can tell him to carry his cross.

  22. Prince iliyas ewenyi
    Prince iliyas ewenyi

    That girl most be a stupid and senseless girl how can u keep such a thing from ur parents till now oh, he want to distroy ur life and u are trying to save his career abi,u most be a fool.

  23. “You are dead already” so allow your parents and the police to “arrange the funeral” by telling them. Your seductive out look met with the son of the devil and produced rape. Your greed and evil desire to get married kept you from telling your parents. Note: if he had agreed to marry you, there wouldn’t have been any story. You were only outsmarted.
    My advice: use your present situation to save other girls and women. REPORT AND EXPOSE HIM,

  24. I think people shouldn’t insult pastors and men of God

    • You’re appearance in this photo doesn’t look like a girl who goes to church. How are we sure that you didn’t seduce the pastor? Well, it has happened.
      My advice is that you inform your parents. They will get him arrested for raping you. Don’t abort. Don’t go near him alone. He can poison you to death. Tell your parents because you can’t fight that man alone.Your parents should inform the police to arrest but they shouldn’t go alone to him. He’s satanic.

  25. The first mistake you did has gone don’t ever made another mistake again your life is in a danger right ,coz anything can happened to you at anytime from now ,take a step to report the issues to your parents and if possible report the case to the nearest police station

  26. Wow! Pls,the solution is to go and report to your parents and try to keep away from him. Don’t do anything in secrecy,any wrong step can lead make things complex. Ask God for mercy to see you through this case and let the situation be handle by the church board too. All ladies,girls even boys and guys let our outlook and comportment attract people to God and godliness not to make them fall. Parents should guide their female wards and not trust pastors too much and pastors should counsel opposite sex with others with them. May God see you through a safe delivery in Jesus name

  27. It happened nothing you can do about it again, you don’t have to keep it from your parents and even about 2 or 3 elders of the church. This is pertinent because you don’t know whether what he inflict in you while asleep is a ritual substance which may gradually showed up later. Be conscious of the world today. Thanks

  28. My advice for you right now , is to report this case to your parents . Cos you can`t fight this battle alone. Please I want to ask you a question ? Do you know that, you are the cost of your problem?. Sort your way out . How can you hide this kind of things from parents . Because he promise you marry you, Abi ? Foolish girl.

  29. My dear sister my advice to you is to tell your parents about what happened, so that they will report your case to human rights, pls don’t fellow that 😈 work shop to anywhere he will killed you,if you follow him ooo. It’s never let.

  30. May the good Lord be with u in the hand of fake pastor becareful with him he might be dangerous Don’t meet him alone hence forth

  31. She is a fullish lady.how can you be so useless,the pastor is not responsible for the pregnancy.church ladies are very desperate.

  32. Use ur head

  33. You are a fool it saves you right.do you want God himself to come down to tell you about this fake pastors? Since you people have refused to study the scriptures and always running t this fake churches and pastors they will continue to fool you till thy kindom come.advice yourself

  34. Dnt blame de little girl guys….bt my advice to u..is dis,,,dnt ever follow dat fake pastor nd go anywhere cos nw it is nt safe for you….go nd tell de church elders nd also ur family needs to know about it… U cnt hide it anymore… tell everyone de truth..

  35. Right now two of you comment big sins to God in heaven so i think the best way the sins can be remove to you guys is both of you to confuse to all the members in the church and too before to your own peoples too should be the on the same day of your confusion.

  36. Why don’t you just come straight and mention his name once and for all so that other ladies in the church can take caution?

  37. The pastor first told you he saw you crying in spiritual realm, that’s where you are now. If you need to die force yourself into marriage with him.

  38. There’s no Man of God now a day, thr last Man of God that we all know and recognize as a true Man of God died June this year, others are just like camouflage. Young lady my advice to U is that you should tell ur parents first, don’t temper to abort the pregnancy, and don’t follow the Pastor to any where he want to, becus if U follow him he will kill U there to cover up his evil deed.

  39. You should have exposed him for the first time seems you are OK in what he did to you now is problem you want an advice.

  40. Better late than never, you have to notify ur parents before something else has happened

  41. The thing is, you younger ladies dress like asking for it! I believe you are the one who put this man of God into this shame.
    That is your child lady, no abotion, now it’s time to work for your baby.

  42. Elijah K.W. Aziati
    Elijah K.W. Aziati

    Please, if there is God, then there are children of God, servants of God, ministers of God, and there are Prophet of God, for God and pastors of God, who stands for God.
    There are Pastors of the the world, for the people who are not for God.
    Believe it or not that’s the truth,as we have bad ladies in the country, so do we have good ladies too so please, don’t tag all pastors with same act,or lifestyle, that I forbid you say, because even twins don’t have the same lifestyle, thank you.

  43. Which one do you prefer? To be killed by the pastor or to be killed by your parents? By the way, why should your parents kill you? You were raped for crying out loud! Or are you lying? The only mistake you made is that you did not report to your parents immediately it happened and that is what you will be blamed for. TELL YOUR PARENTS NOW before the pastor arranges for your death. He is going to take you for an abortion that may lead to your death or leave your womb damaged. If you refuse, he will arrange for your death because of his name and because of the name of his church. So, act fast and stop playing with your life.

  44. I won’t blame u for not telling ur parents, bcoz ordinarily, u won’t expect ur Pastor to deceive u. However, if ur story is true, then it’s time to tell ur parents. It’s a lie from d pit of hell; they won’t kill u in circumstances like dt. U were druged & raped, right? Act fast, before it’s too late.

  45. It is an issue of bad or good pastor, most people foolishly believe in anointment even when they haven’t seen any oil working! In search of Godly miracles everything has happened to these innocent girls. My advice to joy is to carry that pregnancy to end. A wrong can’t correct another

  46. Go and report the case in the police station without the pastor knowing or anything body, if you don’t act fast about my advice the pastor can kill you if possible for him

  47. Bambi u report the case without pastors knowing

  48. What is really going on in some of our churches this days? What kind of fake pastors do we have in this generation imagine a pastor drugged he’s member just to have sex with her, what if the girl have passed on will he ever admit to the act? Now you’re pregnant , you really have to come out tell your parents what happened is not your fault cos you where drugged in the act don’t keep this to your self and don’t go answering him alone anytime he calls you get a recording device with you make sure you record you conversation with him ask him questions why he has to rape you in the church have him talking and record everything that’s your evidence after that tell your mum what happened she will now inform your dad.

  49. Born the child and name after him ,tell your parent b4 you lose your life

  50. Better tell your family now you are still alive, because the pastor next agenda is to eliminate you and save his useless image.Tell your father now. Many of them are called by Satan to kill and destroyed.

  51. Joy for your safety reason don’t go anywhere with the pastor the man is an evil man he drug you & slept with you, get home and sit your parents tell them what actually happened from the beginning to the end it was not your fault if it happens the way you told us, the man is ready to kill you to cover his evil act.

  52. Thank you Steve for the advice to joy. Act very Soo n. She needs counseling apart from conceiving her status also be checked. He never used any condom
    Thank you Steve for the advice to joy. Act very Soo n. She needs counseling apart from conceiving her status also be checked. He never used any condom

    Praying that his health is ok. Never go to any body’s office alone. Even relatives are tempted so who is pastor. I pray you’re save

  53. My dear my advice for is that it has oready happen don’t make any mistake of aborting it, and secondly let your parents aware share your story with them they will help you is not your fault. And thirdly your dressing is indiscipline it attracted the postor he was tempted through your appearance.

  54. My sister you have been already scratched report to the police early because soon he will run out of your sight you will suffer more if he will make arrangements of pay lobola it will be fine the he will write down the dates and make agreement with the police and parents

  55. Pst. Onwuka O Udeagha
    Pst. Onwuka O Udeagha

    First of all you are not really a true converted child of God.What your pastor did is evil; your attire speaks volumes of you. The Christendom is not happy, your parents and family must not be happy likewise the Nation. Both of you deserved punishment, do not touch the unborn citizen. Please repent genuinely for your life. Take somebody your parents have respect for and who they can listen to and plead because of your mistake(waywardness), so that they will be in the beginning of the case against your mistaken PASTOR.

  56. Joy If avoid telling your parents you sin ,Tell out to the church member .
    He is not a pastor , is an agent ot 😈 devil

  57. U are afraid of telling ur parents but u flaunt ur picture and name on news platform and still expect ur parents shouldn’t be aware, my sister it’s better u get ur parents involved before it’s too late especially now that the pregnancy is going to a point it becomes no secret

  58. My dear, your situation is not a new thing, you made a mistake by not reporting to the police and your parents, anyway you’ve forgiven him, people don’t marry just like that, there’s no love, he played you. Go for immediate abortion, abort it and free yourself from him, it’s not your fault, God will judge him. You can’t keep suffering for an act you never planned for, afterall it was church you went to not a club.Your true husband is on the way not a Rapist, live your normal life.

  59. Yinusa mukaila olarewaju
    Yinusa mukaila olarewaju

    My dear sister no body will kill you go and meet your parents and explain everything to them, they’ll fight for you, you’ve become second wife to him final

  60. The best u should do tell your parent about
    it because some don’t pastor
    have faith of God

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